The Sunday Letter — Issue No. 04
Dear Readers,
Christmas was a few days ago, and this year it was quiet and laidback in a way that felt both comforting and a little sobering. I didn’t visit my extended family this time, so we kept things simple at home. Just a pot of gumbo, warm bowls passed around, and plenty of rest.
By the third bowl, though, we were officially over it. Lol.
Next year, I’m definitely adding a few side dishes for variety.
I’ll admit, I felt a small twinge of jealousy watching the kids open their gifts. There’s something about that excitement that hits differently when you realize you’re grown, and adults aren’t really centered when it comes to holiday surprises anymore. It was one of those moments that quietly reminds you where you are in life.
So I’ve decided to start a new personal tradition.
I’m going to gift myself something meaningful each year.
Because joy should not be age-limited.
This Week’s Reflection: On Ending the Year Gently
New Year’s is less than a week away, and while I’m excited for what 2026 has to offer, I don’t feel rushed. My goals are set, my intentions are clear, but my spirit is asking me to move slowly.
I want to savor the little moments.
Watching my niece and nephew open gifts.
Enjoying good food without distraction.
Writing a list of people I want to send letters to.
Designing a hair calendar.
Dreaming up a new Book of Possibilities.
I want to make sure that when the time is right, I’m actually ready.
Ready for what I’m asking for.
Ready for what I’m building.
Ready for the version of myself that’s on the other side of patience.
I’m looking forward to the things I’ll learn, the people I’ll meet, and the adventures that haven’t even introduced themselves yet.
Currently Watching
I finished the 2025 Japanese drama Romantics Anonymous, and it was sweet in the gentlest way, a charming romance with anxiety, chocolate, and tender moments. It didn’t go as deep as I hoped, but it still felt like a warm little treat. A full review is coming soon.
Right now I’m watching the 2025 Korean drama The Price of a Confession, and whew. This one is intense. It’s gory, intriguing, and has me sitting up in bed like, “Okay… what just happened?” Every episode feels like a cliffhanger, and I’m fully on the edge of my seat.
What I’m Reading & Writing
I haven’t been reading much this week, but I’ve been:
Making a list of books I want to read in the new year. My goal is 26 books in 2026.
Writing full reviews for The Good Bad Mother and Romantics Anonymous
Outlining essays for the nonfiction book I’ll be publishing with my best friend Garalisha
Listening to My Body
My body has been very clear with me lately.
Rest more. Sleep deeper. Slow down.
My foot injury is mostly healed now, with just a little soreness here and there. Listening instead of pushing through has paid off. Who would’ve thought? Lol.
With Louisiana weather doing what it does best, swinging from warm to cold to wet with no warning, I’m taking extra care to prioritize my health. There’s wisdom in prevention, especially during this season.
Rest is not a setback.
It’s preparation.
A Gentle Note for You
As this year comes to a close, give yourself permission to pause.
You don’t have to sprint into January.
You don’t have to prove anything on January 1st.
You don’t have to have it all figured out yet.
Move at the pace that lets you stay present.
Your future will still be there when you arrive.
Until next Sunday,
Thank you for spending another quiet Sunday with me.
I’m grateful for this space we’re building together.
Love,
Iris — xoxo
